So you want to learn how to give cunnilingus to your girl, huh? You want to know how to “eat her out” so that she goes crazy in bed. A lot of guys like to think that they’re experts when it comes to performing oral sex on women, but most of them aren’t. More often than not, their girlfriends or wives don’t bother to tell them that they’re doing it wrong because they don’t want to hurt their feelings.
You won’t have to worry about such things if you learn how to give your girl cunnilingus the right way! Keep in mind that every woman is different, so what might turn one woman on won’t turn another woman on. This means that there is no “right” technique that will work for every woman.
What you need to do is try different techniques until you find the one that really drives your girl crazy.
Here are a few techniques for you to try.
• Technique #1: Slowly Kiss Around Her Clit and Tease Her
Just take your time. Use your tongue on her leisurely. You can gently pinch her vaginal lips together and kiss them. Stick your tongue through the lips and lick around the clit. Attacking the clit right away is a big no-no with most women. Make sure she’s aroused and wet before you go after the clit. Always kiss and lick her gently unless she asks you to do it roughly.
• Technique #2: Be a Little Rough – Some Girls Like it That Way!
Some girls do like it rough! Some girls get turned on when guys throw them down on the bed and immediately go to work “down there”. This can make a woman feel really desirable since her guy can’t keep his hands and mouth off of her.
You might want to try surprising your girl by doing this. Sometimes the unexpected can be a real turn-on. Grab her and immediately go down on her. Lick all around her clit for a minute and then try sucking on it. However, if she acts like she doesn’t like it, slow down a bit.
• Technique #3: Keep Going Around in a Circle
For this technique her legs need to be opened wide. Rub your lips, nose, and chin all around her genitals. Do it in a circular motion, around and around. You’ll need to make sure it’s nice and wet. You can reverse the direction every now and then. Every few rounds, you can rub over her clit. Don’t do it every single time though – leave her in suspense!
• Technique #4: Keep Your Tongue Perfectly Still on Her Clit
Some women like this technique and some don’t. What you need to do is press your wet tongue against her clit and leave it there. Keep it still for a minute or two, and then verrrrry slowly begin to move it. This technique requires some patience on your part.
• Technique #5: Make Your Tongue Like a Tornado
You can actually practice this technique right now! Try whipping your tongue from side to side really quick – the faster the better. Do this to your girlfriend’s or wife’s clit and you will drive her crazy! Move it from side to side for as long as you can.
Now, you might not want to use this technique right off the bat when you first go down on here. You might want to slowly tease her a bit for a few minutes. Keep increasing the pace until you’re moving your tongue like a tornado!
• Technique #6: Trace the Letters of the Alphabet with Your Tongue
Seriously! This technique can make a girl go crazy. So you get down there, and you’re not sure what to do or how to start. All you have to do is try the alphabet technique. Pretend that you’re writing the letters of the alphabet on her genitals with your tongue. This is a fun, easy technique that many women love.
Your girl will surely love at least one of these techniques! Let her know that you’re going to experiment a bit. Tell her to let you know what she likes best.
Now that you have an idea of how to give cunnilingus, you can check out Lick by Lick. This guide to oral sex will teach you many more cunnilingus techniques. You’ll learn about all of the different ways you can get your girl to cum with your mouth.
You can get the step by step blueprint here for making your girl cum every single time!
