Want to give your guy a thrilling sexual experience he’ll never forget? Do you need to spice up your relationship? Do you lack confidence in bed, and wish you knew how to please him more? It’s all about hitting the right “trigger” that turns him on and makes him go wild. Unfortunately, that trigger is different for every man. It could be a certain look you give him, a certain word you say, or maybe both.
However, there are a few things you can do that will turn just about any guy on. Men tend to be pretty straightforward with what they want and don’t want. If you want to learn how to make love to a man, try the following:
• Wear sexy clothes like they were made for you. Lingerie is usually a good idea. There are different types of lingerie designed for different body types. You should wear something that shows off your assets. At the same time, though, you need to leave something to the imagination. While you’re at it, wear heels. Heels are a huge turn on for many men.
• Consider watching porn together. It’s not always unrealistic – men and women both can find something they like. There’s something erotic about watching two good looking people enjoying themselves in bed. Watching a video together before going to bed can enhance the excitement between the two of you.
• Be unpredictable when you make love to a man - especially when it comes to oral sex. Catch him off guard and give him head when he least expects it. Think about how special you would feel if he gave you a necklace or pair of earrings out of nowhere. Most guys like aggressive and unpredictable girls, so take the initiative when he least expects it!
• Don’t be afraid to talk dirty. A lot of women are shy when it comes to talking in bed. It’s okay to start off slow. You don’t have to be too vulgar. Simply tell him what you want him to do, or where you want him to touch you. You can also take his hand and place them where you want them. Let him know where you want to be touched.
• Be the assertive one. Guys sometimes want girls to take the lead. If you’re unsure how to do this, just climb on top and go from there! Take charge and give him a break. This will be refreshing for him and empowering for you. You can control everything, including the speed and depth of the thrusting.
• Don’t be afraid to try something new when you make love to a man. The same ole’ routine during sex will eventually lead to boredom. Try a different position every time the two of you are in bed together. While you’re at it, seduce him in other parts of the house, whether it be the kitchen table, cabinet, couch, desk, etc. You’ll be surprised at how fun it can be trying to have sex on a table or counter!
Try these tips for bringing spice to your relationship!
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