Have you ever sent any naughty text messages? What about kinky love letters? Writing dirty messages isn’t the same as actually speaking out loud to your lover. Many people are too shy to actually say naughty things. Examples of dirty talking include telling your guy or girl exactly what you want him or her to do to you in bed. You can also excite your partner by telling him/her what you plan on doing.
You can get over your shyness by starting out slow. It’s just a step beyond flirting. If you can flirt, then you can talk naughty. When your partner tells you to talk naughty, you might feel a bit nervous. You might be too afraid to use explicit language.
The good news is that talking dirty doesn’t always have to include dirty words. Sure, it helps to throw in a few here and there, but you don’t have to when you first start out.
Here are some examples of talking dirty to give you some ideas of what to say.
Examples of Talking Dirty to Women
• “I want to see you strip for me.”
• “I want to rip your clothes off.”
• “You taste you really good.”
• “I want to feel your hands on me.”
• “Damn.. you’re so wet.”
• “I really need you now.”
• “Kiss me. I want to taste your lips.”
• “You have any idea what I’m going to do you?”
• “I love it when you touch/kiss/lick me there.
• “I want to you to jump on me and ride me hard.”
• “You’ve been a naughty girl. I’m going to have to spank you.”
• “God… you’re so beautiful.”
Examples of Talking Dirty to Men
• “Be a good boy and touch me there.”
• “I have to have you inside of me, RIGHT NOW!”
• “You’re making me so wet.”
• “I’m in control! You better do everything I say!”
• “You’re so big and hard right now.”
• “You’ve been a bad boy. I’m going to have to punish you.”
• “You fit in me just perfectly”
• “Take me hard. And fast.”
• “I like it when you nice and slow.”
• “I want to take you in my mouth.”
• “You look so hot. I really, really want you!”
A few additional tips:
• Try to be creative! Being creative means to turn dirty talk into a fun game. Try mixing dirty talk with role playing. For instance, men love it when women pretend to be nurses or cheerleaders. When she says things that a naughty nurse or cheerleader would say, the dirty talk will turn him on a lot more. Likewise, women like it when guys role play as cops or vampires.
• Do exactly what you say you’re going to. If you say that you’re going to lick or suck something, do it. If you tell him/her that you are going to punish him/her, do it. Don’t get your partner’s hopes up for nothing.
• Try to emphasize what you want your partner to do to you. Want your partner to touch you in a certain spot? Touch yourself in that spot while telling him/her to. Combine words with actions to make the experience more intense.
• What you say won’t turn your partner on as much as HOW you say it. If your voice is shaky and nervous, the dirty talking won’t have as much effect. This is why you should start out saying things that you’re comfortable with. Don’t say something if you don’t mean it.
Now you know how to entice your lover with naughty language! It’s not hard once you get the hang of it.
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